Hello, Iam Dr.Bharat Patodiya. I'm sorry you're facing such a difficult situation with your grandfather—Stage 4 oral cancer presents unique treatment challenges, and it's important to make the right decisions for his care.

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1. Shifting to chemo-first approach: This is actually not uncommon in advanced oral cancers. When a tumor is large or involves critical structures, starting with chemotherapy (or chemo-radiation) can shrink the tumor, making surgery less invasive and more successful in improving quality of life. While the timing of this decision (right before surgery) may seem unusual, it’s likely due to a re-evaluation of imaging, lab results, or multidisciplinary input at the last minute. 

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2. Second opinions and hospitals: You’ve already listed some excellent institutions like MNJ, Basavatarakam, Apollo Chennai, and Adyar Cancer Institute. I would recommend reaching out to their tumor boards for a second opinion, as oral cancer often requires multidisciplinary care. In Hyderabad, Pi Cancer Care also specializes in advanced, patient-centric cancer care with a focus on tailoring treatment to individual needs. Our team integrates medical, surgical, and supportive oncology, ensuring all options are explored comprehensively.

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Wishing your family strength during this time—being proactive with expert consultations is the best step forward. If you have more questions about oral cancer care, feel free to ask.